I assume anyone keeping up with this was able to come to the conclusion on their own that our transfer was not successful for our intended parents. I was heartbroken and blogging didn’t seem to be where my mind took me. Although I have been wanting to post for a few days and just got super busy.
I went for my blood draw Friday the 29th at 7:30 am. Our IP’s came too and we all cried in the waiting room. It felt like we all knew. They still don’t know I tested early and that I basically knew going in that it was negative. I just felt like they knew. They left immediately after the appointment to go out of town for their daughter’s volleyball tournament. We got the call around 2:00 from one of my favorite nurses. She had already spoken to our intended mom but mentioned that it was in my chart for them to set up a consultation with the doctor. The nurse hadn’t gotten a chance to tell her that because it was in my chart and not hers.
I waited a bit to text them and when I did they were amazing. Sad, heartbroken, and all the things would be if you had one embryo that didn’t attach. But they were also so kind to me and to my efforts to get pregnant. I mentioned the consultation just out of courtesy but figured they were done. The whole time they had the mindset that if this was in the plan it would happen and if it wasn’t it wouldn’t.
Well- our IM text me a few days ago and said she has an appointment the 23rd to hear him out. As for the future- who knows. Maybe she will try another egg retrieval. Maybe she won’t. I told her I am 100% in for whatever she chooses. Secretly hoping and praying they give it another shot but also being respectful that it’s their family and their decision.
In other news of my life-
We took the twins to Disney
100% of my summer class passed their state test for basic reading skills
My babies turn 2 in 16 days (I AM A MESSSS ABOUT IT!!!!)
I am planning a birthday party as big as the one I threw last year that I said I would never do again! OOPS!
Those updates to come 🙂